100 Reasons for Gratitude
When my daughters were young our dinner pray was simple: “Thank-you God for happy hearts, for rain and sunny weather. Thank-you God for the food we eat and that we are together.” An attitude of gratitude is an important life skill I wanted to pass on to my children.
Without gratitude, coping with life’s lows can be unbearable. Even in our darkest moments we have so much for which to be grateful. Our worst day is better than poor families in war torn countries. Our worst day is better than villagers in many African countries with no running water. Our worst day is better than what many migrant workers who tend the fields in this country endure. When we lose sight of all that’s right in our life, we open the door to depression, self-pity and loss of vision of what God is doing around us. Lack of gratitude opens us to an emotional death spiral.
With the new year upon us, I challenge you to take stock of all that is right in your life. If you’ve never taken stock before, it may take awhile but it’s worth the effort. No item is too small. If you’re having trouble – just turn on the nightly news! Another source of ideas is anytime you pick something up or take an action, ask yourself what life would be like without that item or action. If its something you enjoy having, its probably a candidate for gratitude – no matter how small or silly. For example, I don’t have “dental floss” on my list, but I know it would be on my wife’s. She hates stuff between her teeth and probably flosses twice a day! Floss is a reason for gratitude!
Let your list ramble! Let one item lead to another. Your list doesn’t need to be logical or ordered. It just needs to be your list.
Below is my list. It probably looks nothing like your list and that’s OK.
- Relatively good health
- Heart medicine
- A warm house
- Air conditioning in the summer
- A place to live
- Electricity
- Light at night
- Running water
- Sewers, toilets, clean soft toilet paper!
- Running hot water
- Drinkable water
- Working dishwasher
- No leaks in the roof
- A dry bed
- A comfortable bed
- Copious blankets on my bed
- A comfy pillow
- Working refrigerator
- Food in the refrigerator
- Fresh fruit
- Summer fruit in winter
- Grocery stores with food
- A wonderful wife
- A healthy wife
- Good in-laws
- Healthy children
- Adult children living on their own
- Happy children
- No domestic violence in my family
- A car that starts
- Good roads to transport goods
- Safe roads to drive 500 miles to visit my daughter
- Money, time, health to visit daughter
- Daughter that wants me to visit
- My job
- Job benefits
- Ability to pay all bills on time
- Money in the checkbook after paying bills
- Extra money to donate
- Cleveland Metro park
- Time to hike
- Physical strength to hike
- Warm clothes
- Clean clothes
- Clothes to clean!
- Working washer & dryer in basement
- Hiking shoes
- Dress shoes
- Shoes that fit without holes
- Warm socks
- Dinner with loved ones
- No missing loved ones
- Safe loved ones
- No military personnel patrolling my street
- No bombs exploding around me
- No worry of landmines when I walk
- No roving gangs of para-military
- Prayer
- Freedom to pray in public
- Communal pray without violence
- My notebook with software
- Wi-fi
- Internet at home
- Streaming movies at home
- My smartphone
- Income to afford internet, smartphone, etc.
- Friends to text with
- Family that replies to my text messages
- Eyesight
- Reading glasses
- Ample books to read
- Good hearing
- Music
- Gifted musicians
- Ability to sing (even if others tell me to stop)
- The desire to sing
- No depression
- Anti-depression medicine
- People who listen
- A positive mental attitude
- Sleep without fear or nightmares
- The morning sun on my face
- Cold weather in winter ( a normal season )
- Crackling fireplace
- No fire destroying my house
- A good fire department
- Police
- EMS
- Good emergency hospital care
- Pictures of family – happy memories
- Good parents
- Time with my grandparents
- Squirrels, birds, raccoons, chipmunks (signs of a safe environment)
- Stable government
- Relatively low taxes
- Garbage collection services
- Good library
- Comfortable reading chair
- Coffee & Tea
- Good glass of wine
- Honeybees and honey ( I have a hive in my yard!)
- Ability to recognize things for which I’m grateful.
Well that’s my list of over 100 reasons for gratitude. Again, your list will be different. Probably very different and that’s OK!
Happy New Year!
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